Healing After Divorce: Top Books Guide

Explore top books offering practical advice to aid with healing after divorce. Discover how they guide you through this challenging time.

Preparing for a Divorce

Divorce often feels like a turbulent storm, leaving emotional and financial strain in its wake. Understanding the process can help you navigate this challenging time. Various insightful books guide couples through this difficult journey that aid healing after divorce. As with any loss, divorce involves five stages:

  1. Denial: At first, we may pretend everything is fine to shield ourselves from the overwhelming situation.
  2. Anger: Feelings of betrayal or rejection often trigger anger. It’s crucial to avoid harmful coping mechanisms during this stage.
  3. Bargaining: We might make promises or compromises in an attempt to salvage the relationship. But often, these are unrealistic hopes.
  4. Depression: The reality of impending loneliness can lead to depression. If this becomes too much, consider professional help.
  5. Acceptance: The final stage involves embracing the divorce and planning for what lies ahead.

Books that can help you through the process

Books can serve as great companions during this lonely time, guiding us through the grieving stages and preparing us for post-divorce life. Here are some recommended reads to help with healing after divorce:

  1. How to Sleep Alone in a King-Size Bed: A Memoir by Theo Pauline Nestor: This is the story of how the author’s survived her own divorce and how she dealt with it.
  2. Getting Past Your Breakup by Susan J. Elliot: This Amazon best-seller provides the positivity needed for a successful post-divorce life. Reviewers hailed this book as a “lifesaver.”
  3. All About Love by Bell Hooks: Written from a feminist perspective, it encourages readers to challenge their preconceived notions about love and personal growth as women after divorce.
  4. Aftermath: On Marriage and Separation by Rachel Cusk. The author discusses her own topsy-turvy emotional rollercoaster ride during her divorce proceedings.
  5. It’s Called a Breakup Because It’s Broken by Greg Behrendt: Written by a man, this post-divorce book offers valuable male insight into the process. In effect, he helps a woman understand that perhaps the love of her life is less into her and that it is time to move on. Now.
  6. Heartburn by Nora Ephron. This writer of romantic comedies such as Sleepless in Seattle and You’ve Got Mail writes about her own divorce – and will leave the reader in stitches. Never underestimate the curative forces of a good laugh when everything is going wrong.
  7. Split by Suzanne Finnamore. This book leads the reader through the five stages of grief and offers practical advice for each. 
  8. Healing After Loss by Martha W. Hickman. This book contains daily meditations that aid in the grief process and support the realignment of negative emotions.

Books for Navigating Divorce with Minor Children

Navigating through a divorce becomes even more complex when minor children are involved. It’s crucial to understand how to help your kids cope with the emotional turmoil and adjustments that come with a parental separation. Here are some essential books to assist in guiding you and your children through this challenging transition:

  1. The Co-Parenting Handbook: Raising Well-Adjusted and Resilient Kids from Little Ones to Young Adults through Divorce or Separation by Karen Bonnell: This guide equips couples with the necessary tools for successful co-parenting, addressing children’s emotional and physical needs.
  2. Two Homes Filled with Love: A Story about Divorce and Separation. This book is specifically tailored for children whose parents are going through or have gone through a divorce. The “My Dragon” series finds the character providing comfort for a friend. Children find comfort in relatable pictures of two homes.
  3. I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced without Losing their Kids, Money, and Minds by Raiford Palmer: This divorce attorney provides practical advice on how to survive a divorce with minimal grief and create a better future.
  4. Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way by M. Gary Neuman: This book provides a comprehensive program, endorsed by judges and therapists alike, to guide children through divorce. It offers sample scripts, tested advice, and fun activities to help kids express feelings and understand what’s happening.
  5. Mom’s House, Dad’s House for Kids: Feeling at Home in One Home or Two by Isolina Ricci: Designed to help children understand and navigate the emotional journey of their parents’ divorce, this book assures kids that they’re not alone.

Remember, divorce is not just a process adults go through. It’s equally significant and impactful for children, and these books can provide helpful insights to make the transition smoother.


In essence, these books for healing after divorce provide a sense of strength and solidarity. They affirm that you’re not alone and that, with time, you can move forward with hope.

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